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Secure your child's iPhone (step-by-step)

Screen Time basics, Communication Safety, unknown senders, red flags - and when to add monitoring signals.

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Parental controlsFeatured
A layered iPhone safety plan for parents

We use a range of tech to secure our child's iPhone. This is a guide to what we use and how these layers work well together.

Grant Callaghan30 January 2026
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Joey Social Graph screenshot showing a central child node with orbiting contacts sized by activity and color-coded trust and flags.
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What is the Joey Social Graph? A complete picture of your child's digital galaxy.

See your child's digital galaxy: who they talk to most, rising and fading contacts, and flagged relationships, with one-click actions to verify or review.

Grant Callaghan20 October 2025
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Online SafetyFeatured
Safety monitoring vs. spying: Balancing protection and privacy for kids

Online safety monitoring poses an ethical dilemma for many parents. The question often arises about how to balance a child's right to privacy with a p...

Grant Callaghan2 June 2025
Device protectionscreen time controlsdowntime limits
Illustration showing popular social media app icons like TikTok, Snapchat, Instagram, and YouTube locked with padlocks, alongside teenagers chatting on iMessage in a park setting. Visual highlights Australia's under-16 social media ban starting December 2025.
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The Social Media Ban Is Coming: What Do Kids Really Think?

Australia's social media ban for under-16s starts Dec 2025. Hear what kids think, what eSafety says, and what parents should know.

Francis Callaghan10 January 2025
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CEO Joey Callaghan discussing his journey as a parent creating this app
Online SafetyFeatured
As a parent, why I created this app, Joey

When my son entered Year 6, I had nagging questions about friends, phones, and what really happens online. This is the backstory of why we started building Joey-and the three facts that shaped it.

Grant Callaghan2 January 2025
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Survey infographic showing popular social media apps used by 12-13 year olds with statistics and usage patterns
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Survey: What social media and messaging apps are 12-13-year-olds using?

Our latest survey reveals which apps 12-13-year-olds are actually using, how they're using them, and what parents need to know about these platforms.

Francis Callaghan5 December 2024
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Three things we learned from AI message monitoring, and a confession

After implementing AI message monitoring in Joey, we discovered some unexpected insights about digital parenting. Here's what we learned and an honest confession about our approach.

Grant Callaghan15 November 2024
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Parental ControlsFeatured
Ground rules: The digital rules we set in our family

Every family needs digital ground rules. Here are the specific rules we've established in our family for healthy device use and online behavior.

Grant Callaghan10 November 2024
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Comparison of BrightCanary, Bark, and Joey parental monitoring apps for iPhone
Online SafetyParental controls
BrightCanary vs Bark vs Joey: which is the best parental monitoring app in 2026?

We tested BrightCanary, Bark, and Joey in a real iPhone family setup. Here’s what actually works, what fails, and the real-time vs privacy tradeoffs parents should understand.

Grant Callaghan23 February 2026
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Online SafetyParental controls
Red alert messages: what they look like and how Joey detects them

Most kid messages are harmless. Some aren't. Here are the patterns that matter-how they start small, how they escalate, and the simple rule we teach our child.

Grant Callaghan19 February 2026
Red flagsCyberbullyingOnline safetyParent coaching
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Why parents should avoid the Bark safety app - my review.

Bark is the leading parental controls safety app on the market. I have been using and testing Bark for over a year and this review is why I recommend other parents avoid Bark.

Grant Callaghan23 January 2026
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Are you the type of parent we built Joey for?

We built Joey for parents that are worried about the dangers their children will face with their first iPhone.

Grant Callaghan21 January 2026
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Parent and seventh grader collaborating on a laptop while exploring AI tools at home
Online Safety
How we think about the role of AI at home with our 7th grader

A parent shares how his family is introducing AI to a seventh grader by keeping kids in control, pairing curiosity with clear rules, and sitting together for early experiments.

Grant Callaghan16 December 2025
AI for kidsdigital parentingcritical thinkingeducation technology
Teen checking Snapchat age-verification notifications on a phone in the days before the under-16 ban
Online Safety
How Snapchat's Age Verification Actually Worked for Kids This Week

A 13-year-old shares how Snapchat's new age checks really worked in Australia: emails that went nowhere, prompts kids could skip, and only a few accounts deactivated on Day 1.

Francis Callaghan11 December 2025
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iMessage and Snapchat chat bubbles highlighting bullying patterns on a phone screen
Online Safety
Bullying in iMessage, group chats, and Snap: what it looks like and what to do next

Bullying rarely starts with one awful text. Spot the patterns in iMessage, group chats, and Snapchat -- and use Joey's playbook to respond.

Grant Callaghan6 November 2025
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Illustrated Joey Smart Alert highlighting risky chat bubbles in a conversation view.
Online safety
How to detect grooming messages in your child's chats

Learn the behavioural signs, language red flags, and Joey tools that help you recognise grooming attempts fast and respond safely.

Grant Callaghan12 September 2025
Grooming detectionSmart AlertsParent coachingReporting
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Online Safety
iMessage group-chat drama: early warning signs (and what to do)

Group chat drama can escalate quickly and impact your child's mental health. Learn to recognize the warning signs and how to help your child navigate these situations.

Grant Callaghan1 September 2025
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Illustrated conversation cards showing parents coaching teens about money requests
Online Safety
'Can you send money?' How to handle money requests in teen chats

When your teen receives money requests from friends or strangers, coach them through scripts, household rules, and real-world conversations that build financial safety.

Grant Callaghan11 August 2025
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Family setting healthy digital boundaries together
Parental Controls
Benefits of putting limits on your child's social media and messaging apps (and how to set them up)

Setting healthy boundaries around social media and messaging apps isn't about restriction-it's about creating a balanced digital environment where children can thrive.

Grant Callaghan17 May 2025
Device protectionscreen time controlsdowntime limitsparental controlssocial media
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Social Media
Should adults be concerned about young people using emojis?

Emoji use among young people often worries adults, but are these concerns justified? Let's examine the reality of emoji communication and when parents should actually be worried.

Grant Callaghan4 May 2025
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Parent's guide to emoji slang

Emojis have evolved into a complex language with hidden meanings. This guide helps parents understand common emoji combinations and slang used by teens.

Francis Callaghan16 April 2025
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Teen showing parent a suspicious text message on phone, both looking concerned but engaged in helpful conversation
Social Media
Unknown numbers & 'new friend' texts on iMessage: what to teach your child

Teach calm, repeatable rules for dealing with unknown contacts on iMessage and use Joey to flag and verify new numbers without reading every message.

Grant Callaghan10 January 2025
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Child meditating while surrounded by floating digital icons, representing mental fitness in the digital age
Online Safety
Mental fitness: A fresh way to approach online safety and wellbeing

Just as we build physical fitness, we can develop mental fitness to help children thrive in the digital world. This approach focuses on building resilience rather than just avoiding risks.

Grant Callaghan19 December 2024
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Teens enjoying authentic moments while using Snapchat together, showing the social and creative aspects of the platform
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Why is Snapchat so popular among teens? Let's break it down

Snapchat continues to be a favorite among teenagers despite competition from other platforms. Understanding its appeal can help parents better support their teens' digital experiences.

Francis Callaghan12 December 2024
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Teen looking thoughtfully at phone with mixed emotions, surrounded by social media icons showing both positive and negative aspects
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The impact of social media on teen mental health: a kid's perspective

As a teen who grew up with social media, I share honest insights about how these platforms really affect young people's mental health and what parents should understand.

Francis Callaghan28 November 2024
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Top five things parents/guardians want to know about their kid's online world [survey results]

We surveyed 1,000 parents to discover what they most want to understand about their children's digital lives. The results reveal the biggest gaps between parent concerns and reality.

Francis Callaghan22 October 2024
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