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Parental ControlsFeatured
Ground rules: The digital rules we set in our family

Every family needs digital ground rules. Here are the specific rules we've established in our family for healthy device use and online behavior.

Grant Callaghan10 November 2024
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AI monitoring interface showing message analysis with parent and child having a positive conversation in the background
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Three things we learned from AI message monitoring, and a confession

After implementing AI message monitoring in Joey, we discovered some unexpected insights about digital parenting. Here's what we learned and an honest confession about our approach.

Grant Callaghan15 November 2024
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Survey infographic showing popular social media apps used by 12-13 year olds with statistics and usage patterns
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Survey: What social media and messaging apps are 12-13-year-olds using?

Our latest survey reveals which apps 12-13-year-olds are actually using, how they're using them, and what parents need to know about these platforms.

Francis Callaghan5 December 2024
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CEO Joey Callaghan discussing his journey as a parent creating this app
Online SafetyFeatured
As a parent, why I created this app, Joey

When my son entered Year 6, I had nagging questions about friends, phones, and what really happens online. This is the backstory of why we started building Joey-and the three facts that shaped it.

Grant Callaghan2 January 2025
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Illustration showing popular social media app icons like TikTok, Snapchat, Instagram, and YouTube locked with padlocks, alongside teenagers chatting on iMessage in a park setting. Visual highlights Australia's under-16 social media ban starting December 2025.
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The Social Media Ban Is Coming: What Do Kids Really Think?

Australia's social media ban for under-16s starts Dec 2025. Hear what kids think, what eSafety says, and what parents should know.

Francis Callaghan10 January 2025
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Screen Time settings on an iPad showing family sharing and app limits
Parental ControlsFeatured
What Screen Time Settings we use in our Family

How we set up Apple's Screen Time-Family Sharing, Downtime, and App Limits-to keep things simple, build healthy routines, and spark better conversations about device use.

Grant Callaghan6 February 2025
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Family discussing online topics
Online SafetyFeatured
Safety monitoring vs. spying: Balancing protection and privacy for kids

Online safety monitoring poses an ethical dilemma for many parents. The question often arises about how to balance a child's right to privacy with a p...

Grant Callaghan2 June 2025
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Joey Social Graph screenshot showing a central child node with orbiting contacts sized by activity and color-coded trust and flags.
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What is the Joey Social Graph? A complete picture of your child's digital galaxy.

See your child's digital galaxy: who they talk to most, rising and fading contacts, and flagged relationships, with one-click actions to verify or review.

Grant Callaghan20 October 2025
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Insights
Top five things parents/guardians want to know about their kid's online world [survey results]

We surveyed 1,000 parents to discover what they most want to understand about their children's digital lives. The results reveal the biggest gaps between parent concerns and reality.

Francis Callaghan22 October 2024
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Teen looking thoughtfully at phone with mixed emotions, surrounded by social media icons showing both positive and negative aspects
Insights
The impact of social media on teen mental health: a kid's perspective

As a teen who grew up with social media, I share honest insights about how these platforms really affect young people's mental health and what parents should understand.

Francis Callaghan28 November 2024
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Teens enjoying authentic moments while using Snapchat together, showing the social and creative aspects of the platform
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Why is Snapchat so popular among teens? Let's break it down

Snapchat continues to be a favorite among teenagers despite competition from other platforms. Understanding its appeal can help parents better support their teens' digital experiences.

Francis Callaghan12 December 2024
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Child meditating while surrounded by floating digital icons, representing mental fitness in the digital age
Online Safety
Mental fitness: A fresh way to approach online safety and wellbeing

Just as we build physical fitness, we can develop mental fitness to help children thrive in the digital world. This approach focuses on building resilience rather than just avoiding risks.

Grant Callaghan19 December 2024
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Teen showing parent a suspicious text message on phone, both looking concerned but engaged in helpful conversation
Social Media
Unknown numbers & 'new friend' texts on iMessage: what to teach your child

Teach calm, repeatable rules for dealing with unknown contacts on iMessage and use Joey to flag and verify new numbers without reading every message.

Grant Callaghan10 January 2025
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Colorful array of popular teen emoji combinations with hidden meanings displayed on a phone screen
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Parent's guide to emoji slang

Emojis have evolved into a complex language with hidden meanings. This guide helps parents understand common emoji combinations and slang used by teens.

Francis Callaghan16 April 2025
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Adult and teen having a positive conversation about emoji communication on phones
Social Media
Should adults be concerned about young people using emojis?

Emoji use among young people often worries adults, but are these concerns justified? Let's examine the reality of emoji communication and when parents should actually be worried.

Grant Callaghan4 May 2025
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Parent setting up parental controls on various devices
Parental Controls
How to set up parental controls for your child's digital devices

A comprehensive guide to setting up parental controls across all your child's devices, from smartphones and tablets to gaming consoles and computers.

Grant Callaghan9 May 2025
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Tween girl scrolling on her phone while friends use social apps nearby during downtime
Parental Controls
The importance of downtime limits for your child's digital devices (and how to set them up)

Downtime limits help children develop healthy relationships with technology by creating regular breaks from screens. Learn why they matter and how to implement them effectively.

Grant Callaghan15 May 2025
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Family setting healthy digital boundaries together
Parental Controls
Benefits of putting limits on your child's social media and messaging apps (and how to set them up)

Setting healthy boundaries around social media and messaging apps isn't about restriction-it's about creating a balanced digital environment where children can thrive.

Grant Callaghan17 May 2025
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Illustrated conversation cards showing parents coaching teens about money requests
Online Safety
'Can you send money?' How to handle money requests in teen chats

When your teen receives money requests from friends or strangers, coach them through scripts, household rules, and real-world conversations that build financial safety.

Grant Callaghan11 August 2025
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Online Safety
iMessage group-chat drama: early warning signs (and what to do)

Group chat drama can escalate quickly and impact your child's mental health. Learn to recognize the warning signs and how to help your child navigate these situations.

Grant Callaghan1 September 2025
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Abstract illustration of a parent and child enabling Screen Time layers on an iPhone.
Parental controls
How to keep your child safe on an iPhone: The Layered Approach we use in Our Family.

Step-by-step guidance for configuring iPhone safety settings, coaching your child, and layering Joey monitoring to keep their digital life balanced.

Grant Callaghan12 September 2025
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Illustrated Joey Smart Alert highlighting risky chat bubbles in a conversation view.
Online safety
How to detect grooming messages in your child's chats

Learn the behavioural signs, language red flags, and Joey tools that help you recognise grooming attempts fast and respond safely.

Grant Callaghan12 September 2025
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Layered checklist illustration covering router, devices, Joey automation, and family routines.
Parental controls
The ultimate parental controls setup checklist for every device

Audit every device in your home, configure platform controls, and layer Joey automation so your family's digital safety plan stays current all year.

Grant Callaghan12 September 2025
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Illustration of a parent guiding a child through layered iPhone safety settings and Joey alerts.
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Grant's iPhone safety stack: trust but verify

Grant Callaghan's four-layer approach for pairing rules, Screen Time, content filters, and Joey ethical monitoring so your child stays safe on an iPhone without constant surveillance.

Grant Callaghan13 September 2025
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iMessage and Snapchat chat bubbles highlighting bullying patterns on a phone screen
Online Safety
Bullying in iMessage, group chats, and Snap: what it looks like and what to do next

Bullying rarely starts with one awful text. Spot the patterns in iMessage, group chats, and Snapchat -- and use Joey's playbook to respond.

Grant Callaghan6 November 2025
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Teen checking Snapchat age-verification notifications on a phone in the days before the under-16 ban
Online Safety
How Snapchat's Age Verification Actually Worked for Kids This Week

A 13-year-old shares how Snapchat's new age checks really worked in Australia: emails that went nowhere, prompts kids could skip, and only a few accounts deactivated on Day 1.

Francis Callaghan11 December 2025
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Parent and seventh grader collaborating on a laptop while exploring AI tools at home
Online Safety
How we think about the role of AI at home with our 7th grader

A parent shares how his family is introducing AI to a seventh grader by keeping kids in control, pairing curiosity with clear rules, and sitting together for early experiments.

Grant Callaghan16 December 2025
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